Thinking again!!!

An Idle mind is Devil's Workshop...

I guess this one is apt for me.. I cant bear to sit idle.. Whenever I am idle and I have no Work, I end up thinking which is a very dangerous thing to do for me... As far as I am concerned... There are a million thoughts running in my head and all need my attention. There are so many people I know, I meet and interact. Each one has their life story and then there are chapters. Some where along the line the chapters inter weave with each other and make complicated relations.

Thinking about Relations, I have realised that the best of the relations I have with my male friends are with those who already are involved with some one else. I guess this gives me a sense of security that my relation with them will not be spoiled due to unwanted complications..

One of my best friend just got engaged and I felt so genuinely happy for him. I was wondering why was I so happy, it was not just another of my friend realizing his long sought after love... It was a realization that thankfully our relation survived through all the uncertainties and cleared this myth of - a girl and guy can never be just friends.. I guess now I can proudly say that well - hey look at us, we are best of friends... and it is one of the best bond i share...

Some relations are surprising at times when you don't expect any thing from there. These are the ones which give pure joy and comfort when the most important relations disappoint us.

I am called an agony aunt by my friends... I take that comment as a compliment as not everyone has the knack to hear to others and sort their lives. The irony of this is I guide people and sort their lives when my own is quite fucked up...

This is what I called is the irony of life..